Currently Loading Vol. 1

Currently Loading Vol. 1

January 2021

Welcome to our inaugural newsletter, Currently Loading, where we share thoughts, ideas and ways to navigate the process of unfolding. This month, our theme is transition.

Transition has been an ongoing theme for me over the past year. From comfort to discomfort, normal to new normal, certainty to uncertainty, the list goes on. Albeit challenging, it has also brought forth another season, expansion. An opportunity to stretch into the unknown, the growth zone.

This month I’m sharing a letter I wrote to the senior leadership team at the company I spent the last seven years building with, informing them that I was moving on. After a much needed mental break and rest, I made the difficult decision to move beyond comfort and stay in alignment with my purpose. 

While in conversation with my Life Coach, he reminded me that this was not about resignation, but about expansion. So, I’m sharing my ‘expansion letter’ in hopes that it will embolden you to leap into your purpose(s) with grace, clarity and gratitude for the lessons of what was.

Expansion Letter, September 25 2020

Hi All,

I’m writing this from a place of clarity. With deep gratitude for the time and space I’ve had over the last three months, which have carried me into this moment. While the decision to choose myself and my mental well-being was a difficult one, it was necessary for where I was, where I am and where I’m going.

I’m sure you’re wondering why I called this an expansion letter instead of a resignation letter. Resignation feels too small and too insignificant for this occasion. My experience with this company has been anything but small and insignificant.

I never expected the journey I began at 26 to carry me across cities, communities and continents. What I’ve experienced over the past seven years will be a story I’ll tell my grandchildren. Me, a Black woman who was born in Oakland, grew up in Cincinnati, and searched for a sense of belonging everywhere, finally discovered it in LA, at a members-only club.

I think back to 2013 when I joined this company and the grandest vision I had for myself was to connect more creatives, more intentionally and tell their stories. For someone who always felt like an outsider, my constant desire to create spaces where people felt like they belonged, were a part of something bigger and reminded that they mattered, remained tantamount to any business objective.

My purpose found deeper meaning through my work here. From Under 27 Membership Manager to building Fashion for Breakfast in LA, developing a new division in the company through Cities Without Houses and opening Soho House Hong Kong. I’m in awe of the opportunities, the experiences and the people I’ve met.

As I watch the world experience a massive paradigm shift, I too am shifting in the midst of what will be known as one of the most uncertain, unsettling yet most clarifying time of my life.

While this chapter has come to a close, I hope you’ll join me in my next chapter as a champion and supporter.

Thank you for believing in me.

With gratitude,
Jennifer

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Morning routine with/nicole leaks

It takes 21 days to create a habit and 90 days to create a lifestyle. Your morning routine sets the tone for the day ahead and I promise it will maximize your productivity, happiness and well-being.

First things first, I try not to check my phone when I wake up. I don't even use it as an alarm anymore. I started using my google home mini to wake me up and help organize my day. I love it because I can sync it up with my Google Calendar and I also utilize the family bell schedule feature to organize my day.

1. Drink a glass of water (drinking water on an empty stomach purifies the colon making it easier to absorb nutrients throughout the day)

2. Read the Bible (set a timer for 10 min.)

3. Set my intentions for the day in my journal (set a timer for 10 min.)

4. Walk/Run 1.5 miles at my local track

5. Eat Breakfast (which usually consists of greek yogurt with granola and blueberries) & a bullet coffee.

6. Shower/Meditate (yes I meditate in the shower) I have a seat in my shower so I am able to sit down if need be. I also have some fresh eucalyptus in my shower so the whole situation is a calm and peaceful vibe.

7. Spatial Cleanse (a specific space/area is assigned to each day, so that nothing gets overlooked) (set a timer for 15 min.)

8. Water my plants

9. I sage my work space and say out loud my Space Cleansing Prayer; "My spirit is grounded deep in the earth. I am calm, strong, centered and peaceful. I am able to let go of fear and trust that I am eternally safe. I am worthy of all things beautiful, may blessings from above shower this space"

10. Now, I am ready to start my day!!

"Every day is a fresh start, a new opportunity to do whatever your heart desires."

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Transition with/sheyda mehrara

Nostalgia. It’s the topic that I come back to often. For a while, I described my personality as melancholic - as if it was a badge of honor - & now I realize there is a direct link between these two concepts. Melancholy is the feeling, nostalgia is the noun that often enables a melancholy state. 

As humans, we are these temporal creatures who want to unconsciously & consciously fight the temporary nature of life. We think we can somehow be everlasting in these bodies if we hold on tighter, but it’s simply & irrevocably untrue. Ultimately, it is the intrinsic fear of death that feeds the fear of something ending, which enables us to hold onto things, experiences, people longer than the expiration date. We want to relive what was by being overly nostalgic. 

What we don’t readily realize is that by holding so desperately to what was, we are slowly poisoning ourselves. By holding onto things that no longer are for us, we are doing our journey & those among us a disservice. It keeps us in the melancholy mindset because the nostalgia for what was is a longing for what cannot be. 

You have to let go. You have to trust that what comes in your life is there for a reason & yet, at the same time, it will always be temporary. It doesn’t make it mean any less. In fact, that very realization deepens your experience & connection. You are able to be present for a part of your journey that is yours to experience to draw you closer to your greater purpose. 

I wrote this piece in 2018 when I was just at the tip of the iceberg of personal change. A lonely, but necessary point of transition into who I was being called to be by letting go of what I was carrying for far too long. I came back to this passage at the beginning of 2020 when I felt another chapter of transition was upon not just me, but also the collective.

Whether you’ve just begun or you needed the reminder, I hope you answer this invitation to forgo the lure of attachment to nostalgia & discover that you will find your superpower by embracing the magic of  now. That’s where you’ll find the clues to what you are searching for.

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ON THE PATH

Nourishment for your daily, weekly and monthly journey. Here’s what we’re eating, reading, watching and listening to this month.

EATING (Veganuary is in full effect)

Apple, kale, ginger, lemon, dandelion greens plus water in a blender and then strain for a vibrant green juice.

Baked sweet potato (for 1-1.5 hrs) with vegan butter, cinnamon and date syrup.

Kelp noodle chow mein, ours is from Erewhon but here’s a recipe we found (sans chicken)

READING

Productivity Tips for a Calm and Focused 2021 Fast Company

7 Dynamic Female Founders and Brands to Watch in 2021 Forbes

The Wisdom of Sundays by Oprah

WATCHING

The Reagans, a four part documentary series on Ronald and Nancy Reagan Showtime

Tiger, a two part documentary series offering a revealing look at the rise, fall and comeback of Tiger Woods HBO

Sound of Metal, a film about vulnerability, resilience and acceptance Amazon Prime

Bling Empire, a reality-series that gives Crazy Rich Asians a run for its money Netflix

LISTENING TO

How the co-CEOs of Glow Recipe found creativity (and heritage) in skincare Creative Conversation Hosted by KC Ifeanyi (Fast Company)

How I Built Resilience: Cynt Marshall of Dallas Mavericks How I Built This with Guy Raz (NPR)

Dr. Angela Anderson: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington

Heaux Tales Jasmine Sullivan